Some people believe Satan the deceiver is the reason of all their confusion causing them to make the wrong choices in life. Others blame haters for criticizing all their choices right or wrong making them miserable. Some blame previous lovers for all their pain. Consider with me if you will, that it's all of our own doing. I mean, yes, maybe Satan confused you into choosing the wrong lover and the haters criticized you but maybe, just maybe you knew what you wanted and went for it. Isn't that what life is about? I'll be the first to admit that you don't always get what you want or how you want
it. So, like Humpty Dumpty we climb the wall in order to obtain what we want. We post on the wall in Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram hoping to get a reaction from people. We also socialize at the bar, the club, and church searching for satisfaction and sometimes we can't get no, satisfaction, but we try.
Just like Humpty Dumpty many have fallen and they feel like no one can put them back together again. Like zombies from the walking dead they grumble and complain feeling angry at the world but refusing help of any kind because they want what they want, that ex-lover that continues to inflict pain in their lives. Please learn and come to the realization that you cannot change people. Only God can and he has issues with them as well. I know all about pain, believe me. I know about that inaudible voice inside your head saying you'll never find love again, you're not good enough, not attractive enough, or intelligent enough, to get someone who will love you.
Those voices are your true enemy. That negative mentality is sent to destroy you, to never let you rise up from your brokenness; and having been broken before, I know all about being broken and alone. I know about not having anyone you can confide in because they just won't understand. Your confusion grows as your brain literally hurts from the strain. The anger in your chest is so strong you truly want to hurt someone.
I'm speaking of what I know and experienced, you can pull yourself out of that pit of pain. First you have to know that your happiness is not contingent on a lover, money, or possessions. Being happy is about choosing to do so. Decide that you will be happy living the life you want and go live it. A lover, money, and possessions are products of happiness. That's right, most people have it backwards and that is why they struggle. Don't just settle for any lover, wait for the perfect one you want, and yes you can date until you find them but, meanwhile love the friends that love you, laugh a lot, and most importantly "LIVE" don't just exist.
And always stay in your write mind.